Yeast infection or herpes?

Okay well when i was 12 years old i got raped by my moms boyfriend. I was raped by him for about 8 months. Like around the 6-7 month line i had a break out with bumps. It was dark red bumps on the inside of my outer lips to the skin on my thigh. I went to a childrens hospital and the doctor didnt take no cultures or nothing. All he did was wave his hand and it felt uncomfortable and he automatically said it was herpes. And when i finally got tooken away from my mom i got a full body check and the woman put vinegar water down there and i remember her telling me that if it turned white that i had it. I remember it burned. But my thing also is that i had got raped about 8 months straight. Well i never had a out break for years. Im 21 now. Well i have had yeast infections. No bumps at all. Well im 21, i have 2 kids, 2 and 1. Well i washing a couple days ago and saw a bump on my inner lips. Well my thing is its the color of my lip. Pink. And my cooch has been itching. I have no fever. I have no flu like symptoms yet. That is. So what could it be? Im asking for opinions. Also i will be making a appointment anyway. So yeah. Thank you for your opinions. I really appreciate it.